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Common of Pan Yao marriage: Decide relatives by marriage
From;    Author:Stand originally
Once hit it off perfectly to young men and women, the father and mother that can have one party him demand holds a person in the palm to go to home of the other side act as a matchmaker, parents of home of if the other side is consentient, a when pass on a message of the person that can explain bring two parties together talks about a marriage, choose auspicious day betrothal.

The marriage of congratulate county Pan Yao's young men and women loves all along to compare freedom, it is proper motion choose commonly occasionally, parents not ” of “ exceed one's duties and meddle in others' affairs. Once hit it off perfectly to young men and women, the father and mother that can have one party him demand holds a person in the palm to go to home of the other side act as a matchmaker, parents of home of if the other side is consentient, a when pass on a message of the person that can explain bring two parties together talks about a marriage, choose auspicious day betrothal.



Although,talk about a marriage the bride's side of the bridegroom's or husband's family of not stick to, who asks opinion of person consult the other side first all but, but choose decides Ji Riding must be the bridegroom's or husband's family in person. Auspicious day once make choice of, at the appointed time the man's parents flesh of the wine on belt of go-between of in the company of goes the bride's side, the bride's side sets banquet to entertain, add up to a men and women all sitting company. Between banquet, the parental pour wine of female both sides of go-between Xian Xiangnan, press then from the pour of woman family member that often gives all is in seat to small order, if somebody does not get alcoholic drink, express its not to agree to marriage, hard bring two parties together.

On banquet, bilateral parents and go-between can discuss other other people's business only, do not reach the issue of marry besides, after waiting for, go-between has been done persuade the job, betrothal goes again after getting an opinion to unite. The everybody on if banquet gets alcoholic drink, state the woman adds up to the home to welcome this marriage, go-between is met namely the specific arrangements that discusses marry actively with bilateral parents, its are main content is to decide male close (male to marry into and live with wife's family of the bride's side) female still get married, “ is married ” or it is to marry half ” of “ . Alleged “ is married ” , namely without giving thought to male or female marry, must reach home of the other side settle, place Yo children, uniform surname along with the person that marry; Alleged “ is married half ” , call “ both ends travel ” again, it is the husband and wife after marriage two people are assumed to bilateral parents take care of, the obligation of provide for, participate in two agronomic activity via often going there and back, place Yo children, follow parental last name respectively. In addition, if belong to those who marry, return agreedly amount of the betrothal gifts that hire gold. All thing negotiate, betrothal namely complete.
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